Feeling like a fraud, or thinking you're not good enough, is not your fault. There are ways to change your thoughts so they become more helpful to you though. When you overcome limiting beliefs, you become free to have more impact, be more creative and productive. Rewiring your brain, changing anxious thinking & looking at your true why are some of the areas I go into in this article.

Impostor syndrome is a fear of not being good enough. Of not feeling worthy. And that you will soon be found out! It is caused by systemic bias in our culture but that doesn’t mean that you need to stay a victim of impostor syndrome. You can take back control of your perceptions. The benefit of impostor syndrome is what it shows about you as a person and this is NOT your perceived lack of competence!! You have values that demonstrate that you care about your output, an insight into your knowledge that some (ignorant) people don’t, you want to learn more and serve better.

How to choose strategies to manage stress and anxiety

Do you like to sort things out too? I have a real need to organise concepts, so they make better sense to me, and so I can choose a good plan forward.

There is so much advice everywhere about what to do when you’re stressed & anxious, so how do you choose? I’m sorting techniques for managing anxiety into if you need immediate or long-term relief In this blog. I hope you’ll find it much easier to choose what is suitable for you after reading this. Lena x

Are you feeling disconnected, uncertain or worried? 65% of people in the UK have felt even more stressed since the COVID-19 began. By understanding stress and anxiety, you can make sense of the scary symptoms. And better, find effective strategies to manage and unwind that stress and anxiety.

In my last post I wrote about how my mormor (maternal grandma) showed me how to be resilient and cope with changes and uncertainty. The other huge inspiration in my life is my mum. Her strength coping through tough times, and also her vulnerabilities, taught me how to handle what has come my way. What comes to all of us. No-one has a life with only happiness and candy floss and shiny things (and that would make you feel fairly sick or at least bored after a while…). But we can all learn to cope better and find meaning in our lives. As we learn best through stories and connections, I hope this will help you too.

My grandma and mum showed me what true resilience looks like in practice. That no matter what happens, if you just put one step in front of the other, really take hold of the small joys and concentrate on a higher purpose, you will get through. Humans are sense-making beings and so our brains are wired for stories. Therefore mormor and mum’s successful struggles through wartime, divorce and hardship have helped me many times in my life and maybe their stories can help you too.

As early humans, we survived because we lived and cooperated in tribes. A lone human on the savannah was just lion bait whereas together we thrived.

When we are close to others, we release various chemicals in the brain such as serotonin, dopamine, oxytocin. These help us cope; feel good; do more useful things. Therefore they also encourage more love and cooperation.